Cinco de Mayo

Cinco de Mayo is a date of great importance for the Mexican and Chicano communities. It marks the victory of the Mexican Army over the French at the Battle of Puebla. Although the Mexican army was eventually defeated, the "Batalla de Puebla" came to represent a symbol of Mexican unity and patriotism. With this victory, Mexico demonstrated to the world that Mexico and all of Latin America were willing to defend themselves of any foreign intervention. Especially those from imperialist states bent on world conquest.

Cinco de Mayo's history has its roots in the French Occupation of Mexico. The French occupation took shape in the aftermath of the Mexican-American War of 1846-48. With this war, Mexico entered a period of national crisis during the 1850's. Years of not only fighting the Americans but also a Civil War, had left Mexico devastated and bankrupt. On July 17, 1861, President Benito Juarez issued a moratorium in which all foreign debt payments would be suspended for a brief period of two years, with the promise that after this period, payments would resume.

The English, Spanish and French refused to allow president Juarez to do this, and instead decided to invade Mexico and get payments by whatever means necessary. The Spanish and English eventually withdrew, but the French refused to leave. Their intention was to create an Empire in Mexico under Napoleon III. Some have argued that the true French occupation was a response to growing American power and to the Monroe Doctrine (America for the Americans). Napoleon III believed that if the United States was allowed to prosper indescriminantly, it would eventually become a power in and of itself.

In 1862, the French army began its advance. Under General Ignacio Zaragoza, 5,000 ill-equipped Mestizo and Zapotec Indians defeated the French army in what came to be known as the "Batalla de Puebla" on the fifth of May.


todAAy i AAm grAAteful & thAAnkful

for the freedoms I realized after completing my ninth step almost 5 years ago

that a sponsee called me last night and I actually told him what to do (I rarely do this; I usually just make suggestions)

that I'll probably never have a parade named after me

the Rockets won!! On to game 2.


The Bible tells us to love our neighbors, and also to love our enemies; probably because they are generally the same people.
-G.K. Chesterton

The Steps

This ladder seems like a pretty cool invention.









todAAy i AAm grAAteful & thAAnkful

that I heard some of the experience, strength and hope of a fellow member of Alcoholics Anonymous Saturday night. A man with 14 years of sobriety with whom I can really relate.

that I'm currently working on Steps 1, 6 and 7 with 3 different sponsee's

for a Saturday afternoon spent at home, by myself, being happy and productive

that I'm part of the Houston Roundup this year (again) - I really enjoy being involved

that Pam's computer is well

that I told you this guy was to good to be true


Bad habits are like a comfortable bed, easy to get into, but hard to get out of.
~~ unknown

The Cougar and the Bear

disclaimer

Please do not be offended. These are for comedic purposes only.




Mexican words of the day



1. *Cheese*

The teacher told Pepito to use the word cheese in a sentence. Pepito replies: Maria likes me, but cheese fat.



2. *Mushroom*

When all my family get in the car, there's not mushroom.



3. *Shoulder*

My fren wanted to become a citizen but she didn't know how to read so I shoulder.



4. *Texas *

My fren always Texas me when I'm not home, wondering where I'm at!



5. *Herpes*

Me and my fren ordered pizza. I got mine piece and she got herpes.



6. *July*

Ju told me ju were going to tha store and July to me! Julyer!



7. *Rectum*

I had 2 cars but my wife rectum!



8. *Chicken*

I was going to go to the store with my wife but chicken go herself.



9. *Wheelchair*

We only have one enchilada left, but don't worry wheelchair.



10. *Chicken* *wing*

My wife plays the lottery so chicken wing.



11. *Harassment*

My wife caught me in bed with another women and I told her honey harassment nothing to me.



12. *Bishop*

My wife fell down the stair so I had to pick the bishop.



13. *Body wash*

I want to go to the club but no body wash my kids.



14. *Budweiser*

That women over there has a nice body, budweiser face so ugly?

Happy May

Barbie recently turned 50. Our photographers were there.

todAAy i AAm grAAteful & thAAnkful

that AA is not a cult, but it does allow me to experience a different culture

for the superb Step One meeting we had yesterday -- we read the first chapter in the 12/12 and then discussed it

that I finally realized why it was necessary to confess my faults and make restitution to those I had harmed. At first, I wondered what the hell those things had to do with my drinking. And why would I need to learn to meditate and pray?

that More is Being Revealed, just like y'all said would happen


Miracles sometimes occur, but one has to work terribly hard for them.
-Chaim Weizmann

FYI

click on the pic to enlarge it



todAAy i AAm grAAteful & thAAnkful


for steps 3 and 11 and the roles they play daily in my recovery

that my sponsor showed me the way and continues to be a fine example

that I heard the short AA story of Barbara L. yesterday. I don't know her very well even though I've seen her around Lambda Center the entire time of my sobriety. Today, I know her much better.




Happiness makes up in height for what it lacks in length.
-Robert Frost

smiling

Ping Pong Master


todAAy i AAm grAAteful & thAAnkful

that we aren't a glum lot
that we absolutely insist on enjoying life
that we try not to indulge in cynicism
that we think cheerfulness and laughter make for usefulness
that we have been given the power to help others
~~~ the above statements are all on page 132 of Alcoholics Anonymous, aka The Big Book

for a couple of hours spent being silly at The Galleria with some guys from Lambda


You can easily judge the character of a man by how he treats those who can do nothing for him.
-James D. Miles

Acceptance

Susan Boyle, before and after


Whatcha think?



todAAy i AAm grAAteful & thAAnkful

that I find it pretty easy to let things go that are bothering me -- most of the time!

it's all about acceptance

that I led a meeting last night at Lambda about ... acceptance!

for the importance of serenity to a recovering alkie like me

that Scott W was at the meeting last night

that I woke up a few minutes ago to lots of thunder and lightning (I loves bad weather and storms)


There are no more hours in a bad day than in a good one!
-Unknown

Hey there!

todAAy i AAm grAAteful & thAAnkful

for a first step meeting yesterday when I am always reminded of my unmanageability during my drinking years

that I have been asked to lead an AA Beginner's meeting tonight

that a friend celebrated her 20th year of continuous sobriety at her home Friday night with a little party. Scott W. and I both attended, each with our 5 years of sobriety. A notepad was passed around and each attendee was asked to list their own number of years of being sober. The total was 502 years. Amazing.

for the years of entertainment and humor given us by Bea Arthur. In fact, I still watch Golden Girls often, several times each week. It's as fresh as if it were filmed yesterday.

for a really fun outing to see the Astros (again) yesterday and they won again! We had great seats, just 10 rows from the field behind 3rd base, courtesy of a friend who could not attend.

~~ As I was walking along I noticed that one or two leaves had fallen from the trees. This may have been due to the slight breeze that was blowing. I left the leaves where they were on the ground and carried on walking.


Never mistake knowledge for wisdom. One helps you make a living, the other helps you make a life.
-Sandra Carey

Outrageous TV

Piglet

Scott sent me this in an email. I think I smiled the whole time I was watching it.

A Foot and Some Steps

I've seen this before, but I guess I conveniently forgot about it. Someone emailed it to me the other day.

HOW SMART IS YOUR RIGHT FOOT?
You have to try this please, it takes 2 seconds. I could not believe this!!! It is from an orthopaedic surgeon............ This will boggle your mind and you will keep you trying over and over again to see if you can outsmart your foot, but, you can't. It's pre-programmed in your brain!

1. Without anyone watching you (they will think you are GOOFY......) and while sitting at your desk in front of your computer, lift your right foot off the floor and make clockwise circles.

2. Now, while doing this, draw the number '6' in the air with your right hand. Your foot will change direction.

I told you so!!! And there's nothing you can do about it!
You and I both know how stupid it is, but before the day is done you are going to try it again, if you've not already done so.


todAAy i AAm grAAteful & thAAnkful

for A.A.'s Twelve Steps, which, if practiced as a way of life, can expel the obsession to drink and enable the sufferer to become happily and usefully whole.
(Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions, page 15)

that I no longer have an obsession to drink alcohol
that I'm no longer a sufferer
that I'm often happy
that I may even be usefully whole (whatever that is)

that I plan on a lack of participation in my character defects today

that I have Step 10 at my disposal for those times today when I forget about my desire to not participate in my character defects

that I will go to 3 AA meetings today (as I do every Friday)

An ounce of loyalty is worth a pound of cleverness.
-Elbert Hubbard

It's all about GREEN!

It was Green Day at Minute Maid Park where the Houston Astros play.
I got this nifty green Astros hat.

My life is now complete.


todAAy i AAm grAAteful & thAAnkful

that I remember what I did last night and to whom I did it

that I shared on group level about one of my isolation triggers and how I tackled it. Basically, I made myself accountable to someone. I shared this in the hope that someone might benefit from my experience even though I felt it made me look very weak-minded. This is new stuff for me.

for the majority of the time when I can have a positive attitude

that I went to the baseball game last night with somone who was afraid to go by himself because he'd never been without drinking -- he did just fine and it was good to see someone tackle one of their fears

that I'm not afraid to try new things usually, except brocolli


There is no one luckier than he who thinks himself so.
-German Proverb

I need a title

Two men, one American and an Indian were sitting in a bar drinking shot after shot.

The Indian man said to the American, “You know my parents are forcing me to get married to this so called homely girl from a village whom I haven’t even met once.’
We call this arranged marriage. I don’t want to marry a woman whom I don’t know or love.
I told them that openly and now have a hell lot of family problems.”

The American said, “Talking about love marriages... I’ll tell you my story.”

I married a widow whom I deeply loved and dated for 3 years.. “After a couple of years, my father fell in love with my step-daughter and married her, so my father became my son-in-law and I became my father’s father-in-law.”

Legally now my daughter is my mother and my wife my grandmother.

More problems occurred when I had a son. My son is my father’s brother and so he is my uncle.

Situations turned worse when my father had a son. Now my father’s son, my brother is my grandson.

Ultimately, I have become my own grand father and I am my own grandson.



todAAy i AAm grAAteful & thAAnkful

for a great meeting topic yesterday -- One Day at a Time and how it refers to my entire recovery and not just staying sober. Every day when I awaken, I must begin my recovery all over again. All I have is today. This does not discount having a number of days of continuous sobriety which gives me clarity of thought and provides an example to others that it can be done.
for time spent with others who are just like me

for the freedom and happiness I get when I can practice Step 3 (as I understand it)



Always do right. This will gratify some people, and astonish the rest.
-Mark Twain

OK

Pam sent me this link that shows how the International Space Station has progressed and grown since it was begun. CLICK HERE



todAAy i AAM grAAteful & thAAnkful

that being sober is OK

that practicing Step 7 is OK

that Mary Christine is OK

that I'm OK and you're OK

that the Astros will probably be OK


We either make ourselves happy or miserable. The amount of work is the same.
-Carlos Castaneda

No soup for you!

This man had what he thought was the best tattoo in the world...



... until he went to prison.



todAAy i AAm grAAteful & thAAnkful

for the little fundraiser we had at Lambda -- A Country Ho-Down! Music and dancing. Food. Fun. Fellowship.

that I got to hear Jay F. share his story of experience, strength and hope for the first time

that we attended a one-year celebration of an AA buddy on a beautiful Sunday afternoon around a pool with plenty of good food

for the return of a friend to the rooms of AA after a 2-year absence


An ounce of loyalty is worth a pound of cleverness.
-Elbert Hubbard

Procrastination

copied from an email someone sent me ...


Too many people put off something that brings them joy just because they haven't thought about it, don't have it on their schedule, didn't know it was coming or are too rigid to depart from their routine. I got to thinking one day about all those women on the Titanic who passed up dessert at dinner that fateful night in an effort to cut back. From then on, I've tried to be a little more flexible.

How many women out there will eat at home because their husband didn't suggest going out to dinner until after something had been thawed? Does the word 'refrigeration' mean nothing to you? How often have your kids dropped in to talk and sat in silence while you watched 'Jeopardy' on television?

I cannot count the times I called my sister/friend (etc.) and said, 'How about going to lunch in a half hour?' She would gas up and stammer, 'I can't. I have clothes on the line. My hair is dirty. I wish I had known yesterday, I had a late breakfast, It looks like rain...'

And my personal favorite: 'It's Monday.' She died a few years ago. We never did have lunch together.

Because Americans cram so much into their lives, we tend to schedule our headaches. We live on a sparse diet of promises we make to ourselves when all the conditions are perfect! We'll go back and visit the grandparents when we get Steve toilet-trained. We'll entertain when we replace the living-room carpet. We'll go on a second honeymoon when we get two more kids out of college. Life has a way of accelerating as we get older. The days get shorter, and the list of promises to ourselves gets longer. One morning, we awaken, and all we have to show for our lives is a litany of 'I'm going to,' 'I plan on,' and 'Someday, when things are settled down a bit.' When anyone calls my 'seize the moment' friend, she is open to adventure and available for trips. She keeps an open mind on new ideas. Her enthusiasm for life is contagious. You talk with her for five minutes, and you're ready to trade your bad feet for a pair of roller blades and skip an elevator for a bungee cord. My lips have not touched ice cream in 10 years. I love ice cream.. It's just that I might as well apply it directly to my stomach with a spatula and eliminate the digestive process. The other day, I stopped the car and bought a triple-Decker. If my car had hit an iceberg on the way home, I would have died happy.

Now...go on and have a nice day.

Do something you WANT to......not something on your SHOULD DO list. If you were going to die soon and had only one phone call you could make, who would you call and what would you say?

And why are you waiting?

The Vocal People

Done with no musical instruments except humans.



... and these are for Steve E. in case he needs them.

Two vultures board an airplane, each carrying two dead raccoons. The stewardess looks at them and says, “I’m sorry, gentlemen, only one carrion allowed per passenger.”

Two boll weevils grew up in South Carolina. One went to Hollywood and became a famous actor. The other stayed behind in the cotton fields and never amounted to much - he became known as the lesser of two weevils.

Two Eskimos sitting in a kayak were chilly, so they lit a fire in the craft. Unsurprisingly it sank, proving once again that you can’t have your kayak and heat it too.

A three-legged dog walks into a saloon in the Old West. He slides up to the bar and announces: “I’m looking for the man who shot my paw.”

Did you hear about the Buddhist who refused Novocain during a root canal? He wanted to transcend dental medication.

A group of chess enthusiasts checked into a hotel and were standing in the lobby discussing their recent tournament victories. After about an hour, the manager came out of the office and asked them to disperse. “But why?” they asked, as they moved off. “Because”, he said, “I can’t stand chess-nuts boasting in an open foyer.”

the famous "cat plant"

todAAy i AAm grAAteful & thAAnkful

that the first page and a half of A Vision For You was written for me. (see Chapter 11, page 151, ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS)

that working with another alcoholic works for both of us -- a sponsee and I re-read Step 6 yesterday and discussed in in length. Great stuff!

that talking about my problems with another human has a tendency to greatly reduce the enormity of those problems

for caffeinated coffee


Adversity is another way to measure the greatness of individuals. I never had a crisis that didn't make me stronger.
-Lou Holtz

strummin'

todAAy i AAm grAAteful & thAAnkful

that my Higher Power (a power I stay in frequent contact with) makes it so damn easy to stay sober and in recovery

to get to listen to Tracey R. relate some of her experience, strength and hope yesterday; she really is a miracle!

that although I (we) are going through some difficult personal issues right now, I know that things will work out just the way they should

that Kenny (Recovery Road) celebrates 5 years of continuous sobriety today. Kenny has endured numerous health problems since he stopped drinking and now he's getting married. He is a wonderful example of living life on life's terms. I had the honor and pleasure of meeting Kenny about 3 years ago while I was in London. We rendezvoused at a pub, for convenience sake. Happy Anniversary Kenny!!!

I published this early due to a scheduled Blogger outage


Worry is as useless as a handle on a snowball.
-Mitzi Chandler

a taxing day

todAAy i AAm grAAteful & thAAnkful

that we finished reading Chapter 8 (To Wives) yesterday at the 6:30am meeting. It contains some great pre-Al-Anon principles.

for my 3 sponsees -- Practical experience shows that nothing will so much insure immunity from drinking as intensive work with other alcoholics. It works when other activities fail. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, page 89

that my sister has undergone a variety of medical testing lately and has been pronounced cancer-free -- she will require some surgery on her woman parts, but she should be OK. I'm really glad she finally got health insurance last year, otherwise, well, I don't wanna think about it.

for the concept of paying quarterly taxes -- I'm getting a very comfortable refund back. Whooppee!


Never confuse a single defeat with a final defeat.
-F. Scott Fitzgerald

italics & parentheses

todAAy i AAM grAAteful & thAAnkful

for Step 6 and the awareness it gives me (when I think about it)

for so many opportunities to help others (almost always in little ways, but it's enough to make a difference to them and me)

that I enjoy doing the things that are necessary for me to take care of myself (except eating the proper diet)

Scott W emailed this video clip from Britain's Got Talent (the UK version of American Idol). It's 7 minutes long but well worth watching.


Many of our fears are tissue-paper-thin, and a single courageous step would carry us clear through them.
-Brendan Francis

in black and white

todAAy i AAm grAAteful & thAAnkful

for a very peaceful weekend -- I'm really trying to recognize and enjoy my freedom these days

that one of my sponsee's celebrated 6 months of continuous sobriety yesterday -- he's 59 years old and hasn't been sober this long for 40 years.

that PJ (It's a Girl Thing) celebrated 2 years clean and sober on the 10th. She got away from posting on her blog for awhile, but has returned lately. Drop by and wish her well if you get a chance.

it's Findon's (The Rapacious Creditor) 21st sober anniversary. Go by and see him too, but remember he's in the UK, so be prepared to stay awhile.

that an old friend found me on Facebook. She was my prom date back in 1972. Yes! She!! We have written each other and updated on our lives over the past 37 years. She lives in Boulder, Colorado. (I included that last part just for MC)


Always be nice to people on the way up; because you'll meet the same people on the way down.
-Wilson Mizner

Dying Eggs and The Dentist

The Dentist

Safety Lesson

Today's safety lesson.......

N-E-V-E-R, E-V-E-R,

urinate on a 220 watt 3 phase electric fence!

and now, for something a little different...

todAAy i AAm grAAteful & thAAnkful

for faith - in my HP and that just about everything will happen the way it should

that no serious injuries can be attributed to this blog -- my safety record is flawless! (so far)

for Steve's post yesterday. It inspires me to write this ... As you may know, I am and always have been a car enthusiast. When I was young (probably about 6 or 7) my dad promised me that we'd build a go-kart racer. It would have a lawn mower engine on it and I could drive it on the street around the house. By the time I was 10 or 11, that promise had not been realised, but I was still waiting. And waiting. And waiting. Finally, I got my driver's license at 16 and it didn't seem so important. But for those 10 years, I asked my dad to "please, let's build that go-kart" and the answer was always "soon, son, we'll do it soon."
I never forgave him for that disappointment until I worked the steps of Alcoholics Anonymous at the age of 49.


We can never live in the past as if it were our true home…. And it is a good thing that God draws this veil over the past even without our asking. In so doing, He allows us to live today for tomorrow with just the few memories we need of what was.
-Karl Barth

NOTE: I don't practice any religion, but here's my best wishes to all of you for a Happy Easter.

Paying attention

This table was for sale on eBay.
It's being sold by a man. How do I know it's being sold by a man?

Someone will get the answer and comment on it. If you can't figure it out, keep checking back on the comments.



todAAy i AAm grAAteful & thAAnkful

that I probably have a little more clarity of thought today than I did yesterday because I have one more day of staying sober

to hear David D. tell a small part of his story yesterday; it was mostly about the importance of the AA steps in his life

for service work in its infinite forms

for the incredibly great weather we're experiencing -- the temp range yesterday was 46 - 83 but I don't believe I saw a cloud at all

for early breakfast yesterday with Hayden and Kimberley


If you want to lift yourself up, lift up someone else.
-Booker T. Washington

not much happenin'

todAAy i AAM grAAteful & thAAnkful

that I had very little to say yesterday -- in 2 different AA meetings, at the gym, at lunch with friends, at the barbershop, with Hayden --- but I was peaceful and serene the entire day

that I really, really enjoy being in an AA meeting

that I may be used, but I'm still crispy! LOL


To be nobody but yourself, in a world which is doing its best, night and day, to make you everybody else means to fight the hardest battle that any human being can fight--and never stop fighting.
-E.E. Cummings

Maxine returns

todAAy i AAm grAAteful & thAAnkful

that only now, on my 2,041st day of continuous sobriety, I have heard that BIG Popping sound. Any of you know what I mean?

that good judgement comes from experience, and a lot of that comes from bad judgement

that I finally got a safe deposit box at the bank

the following quote from A. Lincoln reminds me of my short tenure on the Board of Directors of a Homeowner's Association...

Nearly all men can stand adversity, but if you want to test a man’s character, give him power.
-Abraham Lincoln

More is being revealed

todAAy i AAm grAAteful & thAAnkful

that I am still sober after a wonderful weekend. More is being revealed.

that I sat in on a meeting where the topic was sponsorship. I learned some things, including the fact that some of the people to whom I really look up to in recovery have not had a sponsor for many years. I was surprised. More is being revealed.

for my relationship with my partner -- we are both very independent people and we give each other plenty of space -- I have only recently realised the extent of the freedom that he allows me within our relationship. Previously, I tended to focus more just on the freedom I give him. I actually feel that I've had another awakening - a relationship awakening. More is being revealed.

that the regular baseball season begins today! I don't know how my beloved Houston Astros will do. We'll just have to wait and see.
More is being revealed.


The measure of a life, after all, is not its duration, but its donation.
-Corrie Ten Boom

Best friends

Four friends, who hadn't seen each other in 30 years, reunited at a party.
After several drinks, one of the men had to use the rest room. Those who remained talked about their kids.

The first guy said, 'My son is my pride and joy. He started working at a successful company at the bottom of the barrel. He studied Economics and Business Administration and soon began to climb the corporate ladder and now he's the president of the company. He became so rich that he gave his best friend a top of the line Mercedes for his birthday.'

The second guy said, 'Darn, that's terrific! My son is also my pride and joy. He started working for a big airline, then went to flight school to become a pilot. Eventually he became a partner in the company, where he owns the majority of its assets. He's so rich that he gave his best friend a brand new jet for his birthday.'

The third man said: 'Well, that's terrific! My son studied in the best universities and became an engineer. Then he started his own construction company and is now a multimillionaire. He also gave away something very nice and expensive to his best friend for his birthday: A 30,000 square foot mansion.'

The three friends congratulated each other just as the fourth returned from the restroom and asked: 'What are all the congratulations for?' One of the three said: 'We were talking about the pride we feel for the successes of our sons. What about your son?'

The fourth man replied: 'My son is gay and makes a living dancing as a stripper at a nightclub.' The three friends said: 'What a shame... what a disappointment.' The fourth man replied: 'No, I'm not ashamed. He's my son and I love him. And he hasn't done too bad either. His birthday was two weeks ago, and he received a beautiful 30,000 square foot mansion, a brand new jet and a top of the line Mercedes from his three boyfriends.'

new mobile phone

He's tired

todAAy i AAm grAAteful & thAAnkful

that we had 3 visitors at our little 6:30am meeting yesterday; one celebrating 1 month sober and another celebrating 3 months

for the honor of hearing a fifth step from one of my sponsee's yesterday -- this is always a special time for me. Interestingly enough, I'm supposed to hear another one today.

that I do my best NOT to be an enabler; there's always more to experience and learn about this subject

that I have every intention of remaining sober this weekend. I'll let you know how that works out on Monday.


The way to love anything is to realize that it might be lost.
-G.K. Chesterton

on the fence

todAAy i AAM grAAteful & thAAnkful

that I have fewer expectations as I continue into my sobriety, albeit with a few exceptions

for the 20 year-old woman who told her story of unmanagebility yesterday

that I have several gardens to maintain, but haven't planted a tree (yet)

that my partner and I usually find ways to make up quickly after an argument -- it's almost always my responsibility to initiate making up because it's almost always my faulty thinking that starts a negative discussion. Without my recovery program, I'd be single.

If you want to be happy for a year, plant a garden; If you want to be happy for life, plant a tree.
-English Proverb

Believe it or not

todAAy i AAm grAAteful & thAAnkful

to hear someone say ...
Searching for God is like a fish searching for water

that I wuz gonna write something very inappropriate here today (being April Fool's Day) but decided that this is not the forum for that. Boyz and Girlz, this is NEW behavior for me.


You are younger today than you ever will be again. Make use of it for the sake of tomorrow.
~~ unknown

Trying to figure it all out

todAAy i AAm grAAteful & thAAnkful

that Step 4 has really been in my face lately (and that's a good thing)

that I turn my phone OFF or on SILENCE and keep it in my pocket for a full hour during meetings. I am really tired of watching people texting during AA meetings. For all future meetings that I lead as chairperson, I shall ask that everyone refrain from using their phone completely for an hour.

that experience can be a great teacher for those willing to learn

that Hayden and I are able to help someone who's ill and has no family and few friends


The opposite of love is not hate but indifference.
-Elie Wiesel

Happy Monday to y'all

How to tell you're at a gay party ...







todAAy i AAm grAAteful & thAAnkful

that I was (again) on hand at Lambda Center's Birthday Night where there were 24 recovering alkies celebrating a total of 287 years of sobriety (March was a slow month)

for all the things I'm lucky enough to have ... from my sobriety and health to my friends and belongings

for all the things I'm lucky enough NOT to have ... from a hangover today and poor health to being alone and living under a bridge

that we're all in this together

for gorgeous weekend weather


People get so in the habit of worry that if you save them from drowning and put them on a bank to dry in the sun with hot chocolate and muffins, they wonder whether they are catching cold.
-John Jay Chapman

789 Chevy

1957, 1958 & 1959 all rolled into one!
This little Chevy is just too cool!
This car was built by N2A motors (No Two Alike). Cost $40,000 over cost of new Corvette C6 (MSRP $44,000).
Unbelievable!
The company is planning a production run of about 100 vehicles. It sits on a Corvette C6 chassis, front styled like a 57 Chevy, side like a 58, rear like a 59. Hence the designation "789".

a video AND a joke

BONUS JOKE ...

My wife and I are watching Who Wants To Be A Millionaire while we were in bed. I turned to her and said, "Do you want to have sex?"
"No," she answered.
I then said, "Is that your final answer?"
She didn't even look at me this time, simply saying "Yes."
So I said, "Then I'd like to phone a friend."
And that's when the fight started....

Here it is...

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todAAy i AAm grAAteful & thAAnkful

that I don't have to be perfect today, but I can be excellent!

for the wisdom behind (A.A.) Tradition 11 ... "Our public relations policy is based on attraction rather than promotion; we need always maintain personal anonymity at the level of press, radio, and films."
We could unoffically add the internet.

that I am not a slave to my BlackBerry (many seem to be) or to Facebook

that I have cut down my formal workouts (with a trainer) to twice per week, thus adding to the intensity of my workouts

"How does one become a butterfly? You must want to fly so much that you are willing to give up being a caterpillar."
-Trina Paulus

a sleeper

todAAy i AAm grAAteful & thAAnkful

for all the people who keep showing up at the meetings I attend; without them, I'd be alone

that sometimes a little effort is all that's required

that I am more aware of those times when I have negative thoughts and can attempt to quell them

for a statement from a friend yesterday at the noon AA meeting ... He was commenting on being arrested last weekend for an outstanding warrant for an unpaid traffic ticket.
He said that the ticket was a consequence of his drinking. The fact that it was unpaid (after 2 years) is a consequence of his alcoholism. BRILLIANT!!


Old age, to the unlearned, is winter; to the learned, it’s harvest time.
-Yiddish Saying

Easy Does It

A friend sent me this suggestion ...


PATRIOTIC RETIREMENT
There's about 40 million people over 50 in the work force.
Pay them $1 million apiece severance with stipulations.
They leave their jobs. Forty million job openings -- Unemployment fixed.
They buy NEW American cars. Forty million cars ordered -- Auto Industry fixed. They either buy a house or pay off their mortgage -- Housing Crisis fixed.



todAAy i AAm grAAteful & thAAnkful

for a meeting about EASY DOES IT

for reminders of my faulty thinking -- basically, I am wired differently than most people and I accept this

that I have been relieved of solving the world's problems and I no longer am responsible for everything that goes wrong. WHEW!!

for the sitcoms when I was a kid -- they espoused family values and always had a positive message and moral

BONUS GRATITUDE ...

HERE'S some great photos of the history of AA.

Inches make champions.
-Vince Lombardi

Tuesday morning

Babies and Daddies




todAAy i AAm grAAteful & thAAnkful

for Step 3 and the many interpretations by those in recovery -- for me it all boils down to letting it go (whatever "it" may be)

that the light at the end of the tunnel is no longer an oncoming train

for another day and many chances to practice love and tolerance

that I did my civic duty yesterday and sat for 3 hours waiting to be picked for a jury. I wasn't picked. So I made it to the noon AA meeting at Lambda with time to spare.

Never fear shadows. They simply mean there's a light shining somewhere nearby.
-Ruth E. Renkel

the letter

todAAy i AAm grAAteful & thAAnkful

for the 6:30am Eyes Wide Shut AA meeting I attend every Mon-Fri

that some of my service work today will be answering a letter to serve on jury duty

that I got to listen to Dianna M relate her story of alcoholism at a Saturday night meeting

for the every Saturday dinner with Zane M and whoever else may join us

that I got some nice and peaceful yard work done yesterday

Challenge is a dragon with a gift in its mouth... Tame the dragon and the gift is yours.
-Noela Evans

Kids say the darndest things!

Song meister

Do you know the #1 song the day you were born?

CLICK HERE and look up your birth date.


Here's another short video that you may not want to watch.
~~WARNING~~ it contains female nudity

Friday morning

todAAy i AAm grAAteful & thAAnkful

for a sober Thursday in which I went to meetings where Step 11 was read from the Twelve & Twelve and then discussed

that two of my sponsees are on Step 4 but neither are making much progress (yet)

that I am really gonna try to be my best today (this includes being [more] careful about the words that roll off my tongue)

that 6 of us will join together and make a hospital visit this morning for a mutual friend who needs an AA meeting

that today is Boston's belly-button birthday - drop by and wish her well!

that I made a first-time investment in some gold -- I moved a little money around (some of what's left) and diversified.

No love, no friendship can cross the path of our destiny without leaving some mark on it forever.
-Francois Muriac

Watch Your Step

todAAy i AAm grAAteful & thAAnkful

for the willingness to keep doing whatever it takes

for those rare times when I see someone "get it"

when I can slow down and enjoy the moment

that I tend to take things for granted less often because I make this list

that I got to grow up at a time of great entertainment talent ie: Carol Burnett (I watched a 1-hour special on PBS last night about her)


The foolish man seeks happiness in the distance; the wise grows it under his feet.
-James Oppenheim

Are these extravagant promises?

todAAy i AAm grAAteful & thAAnkful

that whenever I'm able to Live and Let Live, people around me are much happier

for the Promises listed on pages 83 & 84 of Alcoholics Anonymous

for a very peaceful and enjoyable birthday -- thanks to everyone who gave me good wishes

for NASA -- many people don't seem to realize how much the space program has changed our world

that it's baseball season again


No love, no friendship can cross the path of our destiny without leaving some mark on it forever.
-Francois Muriac

I'm now the speed limit

todAAy i AAm grAAteful & thAAnkful

for the many concepts contained within the 2nd step

for the wisdom of Father Joseph Martin --- CLICK HERE

that I've only had 1 broken bone during my lifetime (so far), but my broken spirit was much worse. Fortunately it is healing nicely.

that today at 10:10am I made it to the ripe old age of 55


Be your own hero, it's cheaper than a movie ticket.
-Doug Horton

Wizards & Wisdom

todAAy i AAm grAAteful & thAAnkful

that I got to hear a friend relate 55 minutes of his story and he did it with honesty, frankness and humor

that part of the wisdom that age brings me is the realization of how little I really understand

that I no longer drink alcohol in any amount whatsoever

that I had lunch with a sponsee who has been remiss about making meetings; a very positive talk

that southeast Texas has finally gotten some much needed rain the past 4 days

that I am a little more comfortable visiting friends in the hospital than I used to be; my friend Norris L. is recuperating form 3 surgeries (all with the same knee) in a span of less than 3 weeks


Better keep yourself clean and bright; you are the window through which you must see the world.
-George Bernard Shaw

Richard P

This is a clip from 1977-- still funny after more than 30 years!

Click Here

interesting commercial

Knock knock ...

The Lost Generation


todAAy i AAm grAAteful & thAAnkful

that I've yet to find a trigger to make me want to drink; I am neutral to the idea

that I am a little better these days about recognizing when I am playing the victim

that I have the tools to stop being the victim

tha the blackouts have stopped (but my memory still sucks)

for some really good workouts at the gym lately - my trainer is mean, a very mean man

A perfect summer day is when the sun is shining, the breeze is blowing, the birds are singing, and the lawn mower is broken.
-James Dent


btw -- Who's there?

Being ...

Black is In!!!

The most powerful politician in the world is black.
The best golfer in the world is black.
The best female tennis players are black.
The fastest racing driver in the world is black.
The world's best sprinter is black.....

Michael Jackson must be kicking himself.


todAAy i AAm grAAteful & thAAnkful

to be a sober and productive person

that a friend from my small 6:30am meeting told her story yesterday at the much larger noon meeting. It was done with honesty and humility. Very intriguing.

for some interesting observations

that I have some secret information that you don't have - that's what makes it secret (and me sicker than you)


Enthusiasm is the greatest asset in the world. It beats money and power and influence.
-Henry Chester

Crabs

Coconut Crab (Birgus latro) is the largest terrestrial arthropod in the world. It is known for its ability to crack coconuts with its strong pincers in order to eat the contents. It is sometimes called the robber crab because some coconut crabs are rumored to steal shiny items such as pots and silverware from houses and tents. The second photo gives you a good idea of how large these crabs are - a coconut crab is seeking food from a black trashcan.

The coconut crab is a large edible land crab related to the hermit crab, and are found in the tropical Indian and Pacific Oceans . They eat coconuts for a living! How would you like to be on an island and come across a crab that is more than 3 feet from head to tail and weighs up to 40 pounds, with a pair of large pincers strong enough to open coconuts! They can climb trees too, but they only eat coconuts that have already fallen to the ground.

todAAy i AAm grAAteful & thAAnkful

that I've attended first step meetings 2 days in a row -- they are usually jam-packed with experience and knowledge

no more blackouts and the embarrassment that went with them

that I remind myself every morning to be more compassionate and patient than I was yesterday

for the years I spent working offshore (1981-1984) and the sights I had the opportunity to witness -- from the magnificence of the weather to the beauty of the many species of animals


Life is a roller-coaster. Try to eat a light lunch.
-David Schmaltz

Tuesday morning

My favorite television character of all time is Rob Petrie (Dick van Dyke Show).
Check out this blooper reel.




How 'bout you? Who's your favorite TV character?



todAAy i AAm grAAteful & thAAnkful

that I can give back in more ways than I can think of

for the importance of not having that first drink and that AA has taught me how to avoid it

that I haven't experienced an alcoholic blackout in years -- that's really nice!

to see some new faces on old people in the rooms of AA

Friendship is a promise of future loyalty, loyalty no matter what comes. Promises are the bricks of life and trust is the mortar.
-Stephen Carter

Thoughts on a Monday

todAAy i AAm grAAteful & thAAnkful


for the WE of the program and to be reminded that those who are not in the program cannot possibly understand how important it is

for a slowly increasing knowledge of my fears

for a nice talk with my sponsor

that I don't feel threatened by the act of 2 people practicing heterosexuality

that the bi-annual time change doesn't bother me at all -- I don't even notice it
(I also never get jet lag)


Never miss a chance to keep your mouth shut.
-Robert Newton Peck

Is your dog this smart?

Many of us are quite confused about how we should present ourselves. We are unsure about the kind of image we are projecting and whether or not we are correct as we try to conform to current fashions. Despite what you may have seen on the streets, the following combinations DO NOT go together ...
And should be avoided:

1. A nose ring and bifocals
2. Spiked hair and bald spots
3. A pierced tongue and dentures
4. Miniskirts and support hose
5. Ankle bracelets and corn pads
6. Speedo's and cellulite
7. A belly button ring and a gall bladder surgery scar
8. Unbuttoned disco shirts and a heart monitor
9. Midriff shirts and a midriff bulge
10. Bikinis and liver spots
11. Short shorts and varicose veins
12. Inline skates and a walker

And last, but not least...

13. Thongs and Depends

Saturday morning

I've only just begun

video stolen from donated by Scott W

todAAy i AAm grAAteful & thAAnkful

for new behavior, backed by a better attitude

that I enjoy life as a sober person; I would NEVER have thought this possible

for patience that not only comes from serenity but enhances it

that I am now 5 years, 6 months and 1 day sober

that we've only just begun

for the PBS program last night entitled -- "Celtic Woman - The Greatest Journey" -- some beautiful music.


We act as though comfort and luxury were the chief requirements of life, when all that we need to make us really happy is something to be enthusiastic about.
-Charles Kingsley

Can you do this?

todAAy i AAm grAAteful & thAAnkful

that I didn't trip over the fork in the road

for some of the lessons from Step 10 ...
continuously looking at my actions and even my thinking
the spot-check inventory
doing the next right thing
pause when agitated
letting go of anger and resentments
live and let live
compassion towards others and myself
recognizing my motives

What have I missed?


We ask ourselves, "Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented and fabulous?" Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God.
-Marianne Williamson

Say nope to dope

todAAy i AAm grAAteful & thAAnkful

that my sobriety is my priority, which is why it leads my gratitude list

that I don't even miss smoking that ounce of marijuana each week

that Step 4 has kinda been in my face the past week (2 sponsees have just begun Step 4 and yesterday we read about it in the Big Book)

that Hayden very innocently reminded me how screwed up my thinking can be


Life is like a ten-speed bike. Most of us have gears we never use.
-Charles M. Schultz

forrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrre!!

todAAy i AAm grAAteful & thAAnkful

for people who care and take action

for the infinite number of ways to carry the message

that I can usually carry the message rather than the mess

that I don't try to practice recovery; I try to live it


Show me a guy who's afraid to look bad, and I'll show you a guy you can beat every time.
-Lou Brock

fishnet

todAAy i AAm grAAteful & thAAnkful

for a very enjoyable AA birthday night @ Lambda Center; 26 celebrants with 293 years of sobriety

that until I met forgiveness, I only knew resentments

for some occasional sanity

for a new link, drop by to visit Recovery 101

Give thanks for a little and you will find a lot.
-The Hausa Of Nigeria

A great way to start the month ...

Just sit back and enjoy this!