One of the greatest challenges in
ongoing sobriety is to repeatedly confront the same character defects over and
over again. Or, more accurately, the consequences of those same character
defects -- especially if you have really tried to address them via the tools
offered in Alcoholics Anonymous.
It has been my experience (my
painful, embarrassing, experience, actually) whenever I am in that place again,
that my real problem is twofold:
The first is that I am looking at
the result and not the process. In other words, it is easy to want to
have money in the bank, but where I need to ask for HP's help is in spending
differently. It is easy to want to get to work on time, but the focus
should be on the willingness to go to sleep at a decent hour and get up at a
realistic time to actually get ready and go. It's easy to want a
different body, it's hard to be willing to eat differently or become
disciplined about exercise.
My character defect is really not in
the result, i.e. the bank balance, the tardiness or the numbers on the
scale ... my character defect is to be found somewhere in the process.
The second thing -- and somehow I
have found that although, logically, it doesn't appear related to the above, it
actually is in powerful and unfathomable ways (cue spooky music) -- if I'm
applying the principles and ideas from the 12 Steps to these things, the main
point of the 7th Step (which, for the new kids, is "Humbly asked Him to
remove our shortcomings.") is about humility -- not the shortcomings.
Not the defects.
Humility.
I need a constant reminder of this,
since, in certain areas I keep trying to make it about the problem, and not
about a spiritual solution -- which I reach via humility.
Frankly, on some days it seems like
this whole thing would be a lot easier if we could just scrap this
"humility" thing altogether.
But apparently, some people have
tried that.
From what I understand, they can be
found down at the bar.
~~ author unknown
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Being mindful of humility is something that slips my mind.
Yesterday I was trying to write something, but kept misspelling it so I deleted it. It's unimportant, but I wanted to say that in my humble opinion our character defects are our selfishness, our dishonesty, our resentments, and our fear. What you mentioned aren't character defects they are obsessive behavior and with continued prayer and meditation that stuff goes away on its own. Peace out
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