Yuppers....give me the whole truth and nothing but the truth so help me Higher Power.
F.I.N.E. Fucked up, Insecure, Neurotic, Emotional. I am, on an average day, usually a little bit of all of these. On others I have big doses of some or all. But it's getting better, I even have those days when it seems like none of these exist. I keep coming back.
God forbid I should respond with anything wrong or troubling me. If I say anything but "fine" someone may care, may catch a glimpse of my imperfections, may even want to HELP. Where would it end??
well, otherwise I would just say hi and keep walking. If I ask "How are you?" then I REALLY want to know...
HP- that's just what is expected of us in this culture. Say "fine" and move on. Very few people want to really know. Even for myself, I stay away from "high maintainance" people when I am low on energy- blogsphere is different. We can look and respond as time and energy permits.Let it rip baby! PS- did you get my e-mail???
Ah the "I'm fine" answer, I know it well. Of course WE want to know! I thin Pats right, things are different in blogoshpere.
Saying "I'm fine" is a good way to test whether or not your listener is or is not in recovery. Hee hee
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