Friday, May 25, 2007

Removing layers


The A.A. Meeting ...

The more I focus my mind on on its defects -- late start, long drunkalog, cigarette smoke -- the worse the meeting becomes. But when I try to see what I can add to the meeting, rather than what I can get out of it, and when I focus my mind on what's good about it, rather than what's wrong with it, the meeting keeps getting better and better.

When I focus on what's good today, I have a good day, and when I focus on what's bad, I have a bad day. If I focus on a problem, the problem increases; if I focus on the answer, the answer increases.

ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, (4th edition) page 419


todAAy i AAm grAAteful & thAAnkful

for a very informative and productive meeting with the nursing and administrative staff at my Mom's nursing home

for some occasional calm amidst the chaos

for the willingness to evolve in a more positive way instead of remaining static

that I don't intentionally break the law

that I am hosting a small AA meeting in my home today

Every man has three characters: that which he shows, that which he has, and that which he thinks he has.
-Alphonse Karr

9 comments:

Mary Christine said...

I hope everyone will focus on the positive at the meeting at your home. Happy Friday.

Pammie said...

Your post gave me a memory flashback. When I had about 6 months sober, I called my sponor and told her how much I disliked the meetings I was going to...for the VERY same reasons in your post. She said "well it sounds to me, like you fit right in there...just one more negative alcholic in a meeting full of negative alcholics". I started to cultivate a positive attitude...it was exhausting work...now it's a habit. ;)

lushgurl said...

Gawd, I remember the first time I read that in the BB- I thought, finally, someone knew how I felt about stupid meetings! Today, I read it through to the end...I am so grateful to see the good around me!

Anonymous said...

Thank you so much for that post!!!! I've been sober for just over 6 months and I go to some meetings and it's all I can do not to walk out. I thought I was supposed to feel connected to others in these meetings (and sometimes I do), but a lot of the time, I still feel isolated.

Your post has given me some food for thought about how to have a better experience in these meetings.

Thanks!

Peace out!
Kari

Sober Steve said...

When I focus on what's good today, I have a good day, and when I focus on what's bad, I have a bad day. If I focus on a problem, the problem increases; if I focus on the answer, the answer increases

Thanks,,, I was living in the bad today. moving towards the answer

peace

Zanejabbers said...

I see why you asked if I had read your blog earlier. I luv it when someone 12 years my junior, leads me. "and a child shall lead".
LUV YOU.

Tabitha.Montgomery said...

that is a good thing you only stick to unintentionally breaking the law Daave..good on ya eh!

lash505 said...

amen to that brother daave..

Syd said...

A great idea to have a meeting on the bridge. I think that I come away from every meeting with something positive. I'm grateful for that.